Love..

If you are asking comments from someone who has failed to maintain the only relationship she has ever cherished in life, well, well... Do take it with a pinch of salt.

If you are asking comments from someone who got a successful marriage with her first love? She has never failed one nor has she been in a position to look around and compare or feel unsure abt this guy she is dating! So, do take it with a pinch of salt too..

I'm totally impressed by the phrase..

“Only two hands can produce a Clap. And one hand can only give a Slap.”

Why haven't I heard abt it before? Oh my god.. This is something i have learnt! I realised, I love to slap myself all the time! By loving pple so blindly without him doing anything for me...

“Would you choose to be with someone you love or someone who loves you?”

Well, I would choose someone who loves me and I will grow to love him in time.. But most of the time, I get that.. but his love for me is never forever.. What do I do? By the time his love for me has faded, I have already grown to love him so much already! Why is God always torturing me like that?

Must we only learn to cherish something after losing it partially or totally? Well, I have learnt to cherish things now.. But in return, what do I get... Why are things always going the other way round? I love him when he doesn't. He loves me when I don't!!!

The fact is... A person is only very attractive when he's very passionate abt something. WHatever it is, only then, will he/she bring out his/her charm..

Would you be attracted to someone who dunno what he/she wants?
A drifter? I wonder... Now, I know why I'm not a attractive person while YOU ARE !!
; )

Well, we should never judge a person too fast.. Agree? We all grow.. We may be confused now.. but does it mean we'll be confused for EVER ?

Some people don't give others a chance to prove themselves.. But in love, it's not abt proving anything... It's abt ur heart... Do you love him out of sympathy? Or nurtured love? If you don't love him, you will keep expecting him to perform to your growing expectation.. And you will keep judging him... penalise him when there's a chance.. Or do you really respect him for who he is and support him in whatever he chose to do or love to do, and encourage him when he's down and not jeered at him/her..?

Loving someone wholeheartedly ain't easy. Really... Cos as a human being.... We're all not always pure.. We r evil by NATURE!! We are SElFISH!! We love ourselves more most of the time.. We always think we deserve this and that....heheheheh....

And at different times, we all have different needs n priority.. And we tend to overlook n under-rate certain things that used to be highly prioritised.. Because of this, a relationship is hard to maintain... cos now, with 2 pple involved, the whole togetherness thing is more sensitive now... SIgh, I'm sick of talking abt all these now.... I want to go sleep liao... We'll chat again.. tata...